Why do people say such things?
We're hurting. The last thing we need is to be evaluated. Unkind and unhelpful words end up only adding to our burdens.
We're hurting. The last thing we need is to be evaluated. Unkind and unhelpful words end up only adding to our burdens.
We miss everything. This hurts. We wonder how long this will last.
From the Grieving Heart:
In times of loss, sadness can easily deepen into depression. It feels like we've fallen into a pit, and sometimes the pit can grow very dark indeed.
Grief is draining. Exhausting. No wonder there are times when nothing seems to matter much anymore.
Loss hits our souls too. It can jostle us spiritually. We come to realize just how little we control.
Guilt is seemingly never far from any of us. When we're grieving, it can become a frequent visitor. Surely someone, somewhere is to blame for all this. It might as well be us.
We all need to feel seen and heard. This is especially true when we're hurting from a loss.
From the Grieving Heart:
Many of those around us can't relate. Or perhaps they don't want to. We wonder if anyone cares.
From the Grieving Heart:
When grieving, we can feel trapped. It can feel like our options are stripped away, one by one.
From the Grieving Heart:
When loss hits, we feel vulnerable. This is natural and common, but uncomfortable. Life feels shaky, even scary now.