Why do people say such things?
We're hurting. The last thing we need is to be evaluated. Unkind and unhelpful words end up only adding to our burdens.
We're hurting. The last thing we need is to be evaluated. Unkind and unhelpful words end up only adding to our burdens.
Grief is draining. Exhausting. No wonder there are times when nothing seems to matter much anymore.
Loss hits our souls too. It can jostle us spiritually. We come to realize just how little we control.
Guilt is seemingly never far from any of us. When we're grieving, it can become a frequent visitor. Surely someone, somewhere is to blame for all this. It might as well be us.
When grieving, we can feel trapped. It can feel like our options are stripped away, one by one.
From the Grieving Heart:
Special days become huge triggers for grieving hearts. Birthdays can be especially difficult.
We pass these keys, to cease this journey
Our mind freezes, admiring the ceilings
Concealing these feelings of loss
Seemingly tossed inside a soulless world
Never taught how to sew the hurt
Yes, life is a tough tour
Although, we seek guides to countour
This maze which consumes the brain