Some Days, the Loneliness Can Be Deafening..

I miss you, no surprise there. I miss the smallest of things; the goofy sideways wave each time I pulled in the drive, the way your face lit up when I walked into the room, how you'd tell me I hadn't been "pestered" enough today.

I miss all the stories from work, or hanging out with the gang. I miss how the coffee was always ready when I got up. And how we would look out at the lake together.

The smallest of things...don't seem so small any more. Their abscence is deafening.

 

Artwork by Mary Lee Robinson
About the Artist

Mary Lee Robinson was widowed suddenly in 2013 and found herself totally unprepared for what was to come. In a new state for a mere 11 months when her husband died, there were few supportive friends or family around. She set about creating some, and started a social club for widows and widowers in her community. Within a year, it had grown to 170 members. That told her quite a lot about an unmet need. She gathered 25 widows and widowers to write a book to share their stories, and the surprises, good and bad, that they all encountered as members of the club nobody wants to join. It is her hope, and that of the other storytellers, that the books help prepare and educate.  Mary Lee lives in the Low Country of South Carolina, caring for her Mom and is a native of Towson, MD, just outside of Baltimore. Her constant companions are her dachshund and rottweiler dogs. Mary Lee Robinson is the author of The Widow or Widower Next Door and 5 of the Grief Diaries series books, all of which are available right here in The Grief Toolbox in her marketplace https://shop.thegrieftoolbox.com/category/store/mary-lee-robinson. You can find more of her work on her Widowlution blog, practical tips for healing and living, at www.widowlution.com and on her Facebook page for widows at The Widow or Widower Next Door.