If Love Could Have Saved You, You Would Have Lived Forever....

    My Name is Fara Gibson.  I have been a Psychic Medium since the day that I was born.  The focus of my Ability, is to give Healing to each and every person that I touch in life... You see, I called it an Ability, because The Gift lies in the Messages that I get to Give to People like you, who Grieve...

  I've come to this page a few times.  I don't come to Grieve, but, to share healing.. You see, I feel that the Grief Toolbox should change it's name, to The Healing Toolbox.  People come here in all stages of grief. They lend inspirational words to eachother, and truly support each other in their Healing Path.

  Some people don't recognize the healing, or may need Tools to do so.  I hope to help each of you today..... I don't want to Help you to Grieve... I want to help you to Heal...

  When we loose our loved ones, One of the hardest things to overcome, is the Thought of The Passing... Weather it was sudden and tragic, or Slow and painful, or prior to birth, or natural, there are far too many to list..   In each and every reading that I have done, when someone dwells on the day of their Loved One's Passing, I find that their Loved Ones in Heaven want me to remind them, "My Passing is not the reason that you Love Me so much.  My Passing was not what put a smile on your Face.  Our Greatest Memories Made, were not the day that I passed."  "Remember me for How I Lived".  I too have Tragically Lost someone very close to me, in a Sudden Motorcycle Accident.  But, the moment of his Passing, wasn't what I Loved Him for.. I Loved his Smile, His Sense of Humor, His Unconditonal Love, His Warm Hugs.. Each Time I find myself trying to Play Out his Passing in my Head, I make a Concious decision now, to replace that thought with one of the Reasons that I Love Him the Most.  I know it won't bring him back. But, when I keep his Memory alive within me, He is truly never gone.

  People often come to me with Guilt.... There are too many reasons to list their reasons for carrying it....  "I didn't get to say goodbye"  "I Wasn't able to be there for the passing or the Funeral"  "The last things we said to eachother were aweful"... When someone passes, it truly happens just as it should have.  If you weren't there to see them pass, then you were meant to remember them as they were when they lived.  If you had harsh words with them, it is a lesson for you to ensure that you choose your words to be filled with love in the future.    But, whatever the guilt you are carrying, please, I ask you to do this... Mentally take all of the Guilt you carry, Place it all in a Beautifully Decorated Steel Box that you also create with your Mind... Now, Slam the Lid shut on this box, and Lock it with a Beautiful key that only you carry.. Okay, Hand this Box to GOD... He will keep it safe for you, as it is no longer your box to carry.

  Is there life after death? Can my loved ones hear me? Are they watching over me? It is only human to ask these questions. As a Psychic Medium, it is my life's mission to answer these questions with validations, evidential information, and beautiful messages from your loved ones in Heaven.  The Answer is YES!  I had a lady on a phone reading once ask me if her Sister in Heaven could see her still today?  I replied back to her, "Why is your Sister Showing me a Large Bowl of Ice Cream when you ask me that?"  The lady on the phone Gasped and said "Oh WOW!!! My Husband is right behind me Dishing up a Big Bowl of Ice Cream right now!"... You see... That was her Sister's way to say... YES!  The validations that come through from loved ones, range anywhere from Seeing accomplishments in school, to bringing up a family celebration that just happend because they attended it from Heaven as well, or things that have been done in memory of them since their passing (Memorial Tattoos, Personal License Plates, Shrines in the home, ect).  They see our children grow. They know that someone shares a name with them.  I couldn't begin to list all that they know and see, because, they hear your words to them and they hear your thoughts of them.  They are the Wind in your hair. They are the Sunlight on your face. They are the sand beneath your toes. They are the cool breeze that blows past your cheek.. Heaven is Truly all around us.

  I don't think you have to find a Medium to find healing... If you do, please do your research beforehand, to ensure they are reputable and would truly help you to find healing.. I have had far too many clients come to me who had gone to just any "Psychic" they had found in a listing.  Please know that if you go to a True Psychic/Medium, that you should NEVER have to give ANY INFORMATION to the Psychic up front.  You should not even tell them who it is you want to hear from.  It should truly all come from the psychic. You may validate back to the Psychic each message or validation as it comes to you through them, but, do not tell them any extra with it.  You do not want a psychic to give you what they "Think you want to Hear".. You want them to give you what is Truly Coming through from Heaven with No Gimmics required.  I put this here, because, I have had many clients who were worse off after a reading from someone who claimed to be Psychic and truly hurt them with false messages.  You should leave your reading filled with Love and Feeling like you just spent that entire conversation with your Loved Ones in Heaven

  There are signs all around you... Sometimes our Grief is so painful, that we miss all of the amazing and beautiful signs that are around us. We all want to feel comforted knowing that the spirits of our loved ones are still with us once they've passed away. These five common signs from heaven give us that comfort and peace of mind. All we need to do to receive the signs is open our hearts! Visions, Invisible Touch, Smells, Dreams, Moving Objects...... They have the ability to send Birds, Songs, Butterflies, Coins... I could go on and on.... What signs do your Loved Ones Send you???... If you don't think your loved one sends signs, your grief may be so deep that you just haven't noticed them yet.. It is okay and that is completely normal.. Please know that they are there, wating for you, and working on your Healing through Signs that they are with you....

  Remember them... Honor them...  Celebrate their Life and how they lived... THEY NOW LIVE THROUGH YOU!  If you truly approach each day as though you are living your life for them and in their Honor... How would you spend each day?  Would you Travel and take a momento of theirs with you on the trip?  Do you eat their favorite foods?   Do you still visit that favorite place that you spent time together?   If they live their life through your eyes, what do they see?  Do they watch you laying in bed with your eyes filled with tears?  Or do you take them with you on amazing adventures and include them every step of the way? Only you can decide... I can tell you, THEY WANT TO SEE YOU LIVE!!!!!!! Write a letter to them with all of your hopes and dreams... Write down your favorite memories of them and have each family member read one memory on Christmas Morning with the family sitting around the tree. Plant a tree in their honor and tend to it with care as you speak to them. Whatever you do, Include them....

  I hope that each and every one of you find some Healing in this post.  I will leave you with one of My Poems Inspired by Spirit...

A Smile is all I ask of you
A Laugh is all I need
Your tears you'll need to see your through
But, don't shed them for me
A Smile is all I ask of you
For when you think of me
A Smile for you I've Left Behind
My Love is all you'll see
I'll leave behind sweet memories
for each and every one...
Just smile when you remember me
I'll be your ray of sun
And as I leave this world now
Please let me ease your fear
For I am up in Heaven now
I'll watch over you from here....