If You By Chance Come Across My Loved One In Heaven, Please Tell Them That I Love Them

  “ If you by chance come across my loved one in Heaven, please tell them that I love them”…. This statement breaks my and I wanted to touch upon this for a moment.  It is a request that is often asked of me because I am a Medium.  “Please Tell Them That I  Love Them”.  The moment I hear this asked of me, I can feel that love pouring out of the person who is asking this of me for their loved ones in Heaven.  I know how much they deeply miss their loved ones as they walk through life feeling like they walk without them now that they are in Heaven.  The part that breaks my heart, is that they just don’t know…. They truly don’t know that their loved ones in Heaven hear them.  They never need a Medium to send their messages of love to their loved ones in Heaven who have passed.  Your loved ones hear your words of love.  They hear your silent thoughts in your mind to them.  They hear you speak to them while you lie in bed at night.  They hear you cry because you miss them.  They hear you ask them if they are proud.  They hear your proud moments.  They even hear your not so proud moments.  Please, don’t ever pay a Medium to send your messages of love to Heaven.

  Your loved ones don’t just hear you, they also see you.  They see you livng your life.  They see your ups and your downs. They see your milestones and the milestones of others in the family as well.  They are filled with pure and amazing love and there is never a time in your life that they judge you for what they see.  They have lived a life as well and they know that livng is not an easy thing to do.  They cheer you on in times of trial.  They know that if you make “Mistakes”, that it is truly just part of your learning and growth in your path and those “Mistakes” are meant to be made for your growth. 

  I did a reading just the other night and a woman’s Grandmother in Heaven was coming through in that reading.  Her Grandmother in Heaven told me that her Granddaughter had to get a new wedding ring because something broke on her other ring. The woman was in awe that her Grandmother knew this because, some of her small diamonds had fallen out of her wedding ring and instead of replacing the diamonds, they got a new ring.  The release of tears in the moment of this little validation were filled with love from this woman in front of me. Why was this validation from her Grandma in Heaven so important?  The woman explained to me that before her reading that day, she had only asked to know that someone, anyone in Heaven is looking out for her and watching over her.  How beautiful was it that her Grandma in Heaven wasn’t missing out on a thing…. All the way down to Teeny Tiny diamonds that had fallen out of her ring.

  You see, your loved ones in Heaven are with you always.  Heaven is truly all around you as you walk through life.  Heaven is in the air that you breathe.  Heaven is in the sun upon your face.  Heaven is in the flowers and trees that surround you.  Heaven is within the birds and amazing animals in this world.  Heaven is also within you….  Because you are a part of Heaven and Heaven is a part of you, there is never a day in this life that you walk without your loved ones who have passed.

 You will never hear me use the word “Die” or “Died” because our Souls never Die.  Our souls are eternally bright and made of Heaven’s light.  Our souls are untouched in our passings.  Our bodies do not continue on, but our Souls remain forever.  What if I could teach you that you still have that close relationship with your loved ones that passed that you miss so much?  I know you can’t physically touch and hold them, that part, I wish I could change for you.  But, when you begin to recognize that you are surrounded by Heaven, you may then begin to feel Heaven surrounding you.  Your loved ones are limitless when it comes to sending their signs of love around you to comfort you with their love.  Coins, butterflies, birds, feathers, light flickers, cloud signs, silly shaped rocks, misplaced items in your home, and I can tell you that there is no possible way that I could list them all because as I said, your loved ones are limitless when it comes to sending you signs.  Sometimes you may miss the signs they send you as it is hard to see the beauty in this world through your tears, but, I assure you that the signs are there.  Please know that those signs will continue to be there even after your tears may subside a litte.  Have Faith that you will see their beautiful signs.  Know that when the timing is right, you will feel them surrounding you.  Just because you don’t feel them around you right now, does not mean they aren’t there.  As I said, it is hard to recognize the beauty in this world, through our grief.

 Does that mean that in grieving, you are doing it wrong?  NO. You are entitled to grieve.  That grief comes from pure love.  What I want you to try is this.  When you begin to focus upon the day and way that your loved one passed, please consciously scream “STOP” in your mind.  I don’t want you to erase that memory, but I want you to replace it.  I want you to replace that memory with your favorite moment with your loved one in life.  I want you to re-live that amazing moment that you love so much with your loved one that passed.  Breathe in that moment and the laughter or love that comes with it.  Feel it with your soul.  That moment is the very essence of their love that they left behind for you.  Their legacy of love is what they left for you to propell you to greatness in this world.  I can assure you that they are perfect in Heaven as they are filled with Love and Light.  They never intended to live their life with you filled with love and only leave you with memories of their passing.  The reason you grieve so deeply and love them so much is because the life they shared with you was filled with with memories that you wish you could live again or carry on.  Please know that the day and the way that they passed is truly part of their legacy as well, but it certainly isn’t the biggest message of love they intended to leave you in life. So, I ask you to focus upon their biggest moments of love on those difficult days.  As you change your focus once a day, you are gaining more strength than you ever knew you could gain.  You are also clearing grief and filling that grief void with love.  As you fill yourself with love, you may begin to see and sense the beautiful signs of love that they are surrounding you with from Heaven.  It is then, that you will realize that your relationship with those you love in Heaven truly does carry on, only in different way.  You will feel them at your side in times of need.  You may speak to them, because they do hear you.  Listen in your heart space for their responses.  Remove your self doubt when speaking to them, because sometimes we can be the biggest obstacle in the way of feeling that connection with our loved ones that passed and that is completely normal. 

  Just know that you are livng and in living you are gaining strength.  Your loved ones who passed have blessed you with more strength than you ever knew you could carry in life.  You aren’t doing life wrong, you are doing life just right as your life is perfectly planned just for you. Keep your chin up, you are loved more than you will ever know….