Let Your Light Shine So Brightly, That Others Can See Their Way Out Of The Darkness

Each Day is a New Day.  How you spend every moment of each day, is truly up to you.  The Choices that you have are many.  The opportunities in each day that you live, are Endless…….

  Each and Every One of us has Obstacles in our life that we learn from.  They are the reason that we become strong. They Grow our Spirit in ways we never knew was possible.  Weather the obstacle is Finances, or Family… Maybe, it is Work, Or Our Love Life…. It May Also Be Loss…….  YOU HAVE A 100% TRACK RECORD FOR MAKING IT THROUGH EVERY OBSTACLE IN YOUR LIFE…. Those are Pretty Good Odds!!!!

  Sometimes we seem to forget our Worth when things seem to go wrong in life.  We spend our time trying to find a way to blame ourselves for things that are completely out of our control.. In that Blame that we create for our self, we carry a Weight on our shoulders.  It affects our daily life, our routine, our way of merely coping with getting out of bed in the morning. 

  My Question is, Why Carry Weight that is not yours to carry??????????

  Never lose who you are while trying to save others from their life obstacles. They cannot learn their lessons, if you overcome their obstacles for them. Let them learn and grow from their Path. Stay focused on your amazing Path as you send love their way. If they are meant to rejoin you on your journey, they will. But, don't feel that you have to make steps in their direction, if that direction, isn't a place that your Soul feels it should travel. Don't compromise your happiness, for someone else's lessons.

  Placing Blame on ourselves for “Not being there when a loved one passed?”, “Separating ourselves from someone on a Negative Path, and then feeling guilty for not sharing their Negative Path with them?”,  “Not Protecting someone From Harm, that was completely out of our control” , “Spending an Entire Pregnancy taking care of ourselves and blaming ourselves for the Loss of a baby?”…. I could list millions of reasons that our Brains can create in times of Struggle in our life… But, I want you to begin to listen to your SOUL……………

  If you weren’t there when a loved one passed, you were truly not meant to see them in that way. You are meant to live your life with the memory of them as they were when they lived…..   Do you have a loved one on Drugs that would steal from you or influence your family in a negative way that you have had to put distance between? If so, you are doing the right thing by creating that distance, as their negative path is not yours to travel… It doesn’t mean that you won’t welcome them with loving arms if they turn around and get back on a positive path.. It just means that you don’t have to travel their Path with them…  I have spoken to so many Mothers who have lost infants at birth, who try to carry the passing on their shoulders as their burden.. You Love that Baby more than life itself. You did everything within your means to bring that baby safely into this world. The burden of the baby’s passing is not yours to carry…  You now have an Angel in Heaven watching over you that Thanks You for giving them Opportunity in this World.

  Loss is an Obstacle placed in each of our lives at so many levels… How we Grow from that Loss is Truly up to each of us… Yes, I said Grow….  We all know, that there isn’t a possibility of living forever in each of these bodies that we are Blessed by God with.  Each of us Truly has Prewritten our Exit with God.  We leave the loved ones around us behind in the Physical form.  But our Spirit is Never Touched by Death….  It is also not up to us, to determine when the Graduation from this Physical World occurs, for our Loved Ones… If it were up to us, they would truly live forever of course….   So, our LOVE for them makes us ask the Question, WHY?  It is natural to ask….. It is also a simple answer… It was truly their time…….  

  Why do we dwell on the Question asking God WHY????  If we learn to accept that their passing happened in perfect Heaven’s Timing, we can begin to realize that they are not “Dead” at all…. They are just Graduated to the next part of this Journey called LIFE… They are very Much Living in Heaven and watching over you....

  People ask me all of the time, Why don’t I see Signs from my loved one in Heaven?  The Answer is simple…. Because you are focusing on the Loss.. On the Grief….. On No Longer Living…..  My Question to them is WHY would you make that your focus????  Is that the reason you love them so much? Is the Day they passed, the only day that they lived with you???  Not even a Mother who lost their Baby at birth can say that it was the only day she had, because, she will always have the moments that she carried her baby in her beautiful Womb, that no one could ever take way….

  Instead of focusing on their passing, or suffering at the end of their life, or that they are no longer physically here….. FOCUS ON HOW THEY LIVED…. More than that, focus on how you can HONOR them in your daily life…  When we change our focus to see the Beauty around us, we will begin to see their Beautiful Signs that are already right in front of us….

  They are with you each and every step you take through life… What experiences are you giving them?  Do they join you on adventures, by taking a token of theirs wherever you go? Do you write letters to them and read them out loud?  Do you light candles for them on special days and tell them you love them?  Do you get that College Degree that you know they would be so proud of you for getting?  Do you teach their Traditions to each child in your family to carry on their Legacy?  Do you visit a river and just sit quietly and reminisce on beautiful memories of them?..................Or…………… Do you cry all of the time as they sit next to you trying to lend you comfort??….. Do you stay indoors as they encourage you from Heaven to get out???  Do you stop making memories for your own legacy that you will be remembered by with your family and friends, as they plead with you to LIVE??? Again, the choice in the experience that you give them is yours……. Only you can choose….

  I then hear..” But, I can’t”………….. Well…. As long as ”I Can’t” is in your Vocabulary, you may very well be right… You see… You surround yourself with successes and failures in life.. “I Can” will get you everywhere…. “I Can’t” will keep you Idle… IS IDLE WHERE YOU CHOOSE TO STAY???  If you just ask HOW??? It is a Great Start… Here is my suggestion… Take every Negative thought, feeling, or emotion you have, and Consciously replace it with a Positive.  This will not happen on its own… There is no magical healing fairy that will grace you with her wand.  You have to make the effort all on your own.

  I want you to do this exercise once right now.. Make it a part of your daily routine, as your feet hit the floor each morning… ……..

I want you to Imagine a Beautiful White Light coming down out of the sky and Pouring over the top of your Head… As this White Light Touches your Head, let it enter your body and flow through your Head, down your neck, down your shoulders and through your arms, down your torso and through your legs…Let this light spill over your body and into a ball around you… As this Light fills your Mind, Body, and Soul, I want you to ask God to please allow this light to remove all Negative Thoughts, Feelings, and Emotions that you are carrying within you.  I want you to then ask God, to let those Negative Thoughts , feelings, and emotions, be pulled down by Mother Earth and Recycled into PURE LOVE……

  Each day, as your Feet hit the floor, I want you to Thank God for the Beautiful Day that you are about to begin… (Even if you don’t feel very Thankful right now, Please just try it)………… Use the Light Exercise as well, to help you to get back on track and let go of all that you are carrying, that isn’t yours to carry…

  Let Your Light Shine So Brightly, That Others Can See Their Way Out Of The Darkness…………………… It All begins with YOU………