What Legacy Will You Leave Behind? Please let me help you chang your focus.

Please take your eyes and focus them on the beauty that is all around you.  You are not alone. You are not without them.  They are with you and watching over you in all that you do from Heaven.  Heaven is not as far away as you think.  It is not past the moon and stars.  You do not need a rocket ship to get to them. 

Heaven is only 3 feet off of our floor.  Yes, only 3 feet above where your feet walk, is Heaven's floor.... It is the reason that your loved ones can see you from Heaven, as they are so close.  It is the reason that they can hear you from Heaven, as they are living all around you.  It is the reason that they can leave the most beautiful signs for you and if you would only change your focus to the beauty around you instead of focusing on thier passing, you would see the beauty that they surround you with. 

Their passing is not the reason that you love them so much.  You love them for the joy that they brought to your life.  You love them for the Peace that they filled your heart with.  You love them for the lessons you learned with them in the Ups and the strength you gained in the down times. Each and every time you find yourself focusing on their passing or that they are "gone", I want you to consciously replace those thoughts with your favorite memories of how they LIVED. 

Even a Mother who lost an infant has memories of the love they shared as they carried them.  You all have the ability to know that your loved one is with you still.  Are you choosing not to see that they are there, by choosing to focus on a negative?  Please don't put "I Can't", "I won't", "You Don't Understand", as those are simply choices. It is not a competition as to who's loss was more difficult than another, as the passing of anyone that we love is difficult to work thorugh. 

I want you to know that "You Can", "You Will", and "You Must" , Because you are now making beautiful life long memories for your loved ones that are still sharing their life here on Earth with you still.  How will you be remembered if you choose to stop living?  How does your loved one in Heaven feel knowing that you stopped living because of them?  They truly see you.  

What legacy will you leave behind for your loved ones some day? Will you be remembered for bringing everyone together as a family at the kitchen table to play board games and someone laughed so hard at your sense of humor that they shot soda out of their nose? Or will they remember you for being bitter and angry? Will they tell stories of the fearless adventures that you took in your life as you chased your dreams? Or will they recall how you cried in bed each and every day and night?  Will your loved ones have learned beautiful traditions from you that you passed down from your loved ones before you? Or will those traditions end because you let the pain of their passing stop you from carrying on all that they had instilled in you?  Will your loved ones have countless silly pictures of themselves with you to remember you by? Or do you tell them that you just don’t feel like being in a family picture today as you forget that this is the only physical family That you have left?  

What Legacy will you leave behind for your loved ones some day? It is never too late to start new memories today. Each day is a new day and it will be as Good or as Bad as you let it be. You are in control of your Legacy. Make it Amazing.  They are supporting and loving you in all that you do.  Make them proud.  Live in Honor of them.  Finish their adventures for them.  Carry them with you as you chase your own dreams.  But, please take your eyes and focus on the beauty that is all around you, as focusing on a negative will only bring more of the same around you...... Life is what YOU make of it. 

There is not a magical fairy that will sprinkle healing dust on you so that one day you will be okay.  You have to make yourself okay in a conscious effort each and every day and make rules within yourself that you will not allow anything but happiness and love within your space. You CAN do it.  Remove all of the negative thoughts, feelings, and emotions from your space and fill yourself each day with Love and Light to share with everyone you meet each day in honor of your loved ones in Heaven. You must Never Forget Your Worth ♥