Mother's Day after Child Loss

Mother’s Day is approaching- 

My first mothers day without Brian I was so sad as it was approaching. He is the only reason I am even a mom. And when I said those words out loud my mood about it changed.  HE is the reason I have this day. HE made me a mom. How could I not embrace that? This day? So I did. I did what I had done for the 17 years he was here with me before that car accident took his life. My husband bought me flowers and we went to mothers day brunch and I smiled with pride for every Happy Mother’s Day I heard said to me. This will be my 4th without my son and I will embrace this day and honor the day. Our day! The day I got to have this day to even celebrate is because of Brian. ❤️ 

Try, please try, to embrace the fact your child made you a mom. Say those words out loud...celebrate and honor that. You deserve to have a wonderful Mothers Day!!! For you and your child  

#doitforbrian