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Why do people try to fix the unfixable?


This will cannot be fixed. Those around us, however, will try.  Most are well-intentioned, perhaps, but that doesn't make their words helpful.

People Don't Get It

 

When loss hits, life changes. This includes our relationships. So often, the people arond us don't understrand. We can feel rejected, invisible, and alone. 

 

I Feel Like a Shadow

 

When we get hit by loss, our entire being feels the shock. We can feel like we're somehow disappearing, like shadows in the night.  

I'm Not the Same Anymore

Some losses change everything. We're not the same people we used to be. How could we be?


From the Grieving Heart:

I Have More Questions Than I Realized

Loss generates questions - lots of them. Many of them have no satisfying answers, yet our hearts must ask them anyway. 

 

Surely Someone Could Have Done Something

When loss strikes, we're stunned. We wonder about many things. Did it have to happen? Could someone have done something to prevent it?

From the Grieving Heart:

My Guilt List Has No End

Guilt is not our friend, yet he comes visiting often. At times, it seems there is no end to the things we wonder about and can feel guilty for. 


I Can't Get Enough Air

Anxiety can be a terrible thing. It can hijack a life. In grief, our anxiety baseline naturally rises. Panic attacks can come out of the blue.


Where Did Everyone Go?

When loss hits, our world changes. This includes our relationships. No one seems to understand. People disappear. We wonder, "Where did everyone go?"

I'm Not Sleeping Well

We've been hit by loss. Everything seems to have changed. Our lives have been upended, and even our sleep is disrupted. Fatigue becomes the norm. 

 

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