Manifesting Love Into Your Life Again

Perhaps you’ve been complaining about something or have felt like a victim because of  someone else?  I want you to know that you have the power within you to change Everything in your life by using your natural born spiritual gifts.

When you complain, you are giving away your power and happiness to others. Complaints are a negative affirmation that attracts more of the same into your path with undesirable effects.  Negative thoughts are no different in this manifestation either

For Thoughts are Things and they absolutely have a direct affect on your life and what you are drawing into your path.

  I want you to replace the old complaining habit with a healthier response, so that you truly have the outcome that you want in your path.  Why place your focus on what you don’t want?  What do I mean by this?  Let me give you some examples…… 

  Lets say you have a co-worker that you just can’t stand to share the same air with….  When you are with this person, the energy in the room is unstable, the tension could be cut with a butter knife, and your thoughts or words go to dislike, discomfort, and lets face it, all around misery…… I want to help you to change that… You have to work with this person. This is your job and livelyhood. I want you to walk into work tomorrow and visualize LOVE. “LOVE?!!! Love for the person that Drives me NUTS??!!! “…. YEP, LOVE….. I want you to visualize a beautiful Pink Light.  Pink Light represents love.  I want you to visualize this pink light entering and filling the entire room at work with Love.  Send love to the persont that is bringing this stress your way.  Send love in the direction of all of your coworkers who have complained with you about this person.  Each and every day, when your thoughts turn negative, don’t give that negativity your energy as it will spread like wildfire.  I want you to scream in your head “STOP!” and I want you to visualize that love surrounding your space again.  As you begin to change the energy of the space around you, and place your focus on what you do want, (Which is a peaceful and serene place to work) then you will draw that peace and serenity into your space with LOVE……  Stop complaining about the situation that has brought this stress to you as in every complaint lies more negative energy that you are surrounding yourself with.  Instead, I want you to change your words to, “ Today is a Beautiful Day because I am in it.  I will share the beauty within me so that others may be beautiful as well.”

  Maybe you have an Ex Spouse or Ex Whatever that is giving your life Stress, anger, and Tears in your life.  The same technique that I gave you up above can be used in this example as well.  But, I will add to this.  If your Ex is messaging you with negativity, threatening you, or trying to sabotage your happiness,  I want you to first STOP RESPONDING TO IT!  Yep, I said it, Don’t Respond!!!  You let them jump up and down in their yard and wave their hands like an idiot all they want, but, WHY STOOP TO THEIR LEVEL?  Why Feed their need to make you upset by showing them that you are upset??!!!   If they are texting your phone, BLOCK their Number!  If you take away all of their means of communication with you, they will eventually get tired of talking to a brick wall and they will move on.  I now want you to visualize a Beautiful Ball of Light around you.  Nothing is allowed within this ball of light but unconditional love.  Anything sent your way that is not love will simply bounce off of this beautiful ball and go right back to the person who sent it.  I want you to visualize your ex surrounded in that pink loving light.  (I know, How the Heck am I supposed to visualize that Idiot with LOVE??!!!)  It is simple, when your ex finds love and happiness in their life, they will no longer place their focus on tearing you down.  You are also not attracting the negativity into your path that you were before by wishing your ex would have been attacked and eaten by dinosaurs.  It won’t be easy and I know this first hand.  But, you can do it!!!

  Perhaps the unhappiness you carry is because of the passing of a loved one. Quite often one of the biggest questions I am asked is “WHY DON’T I GET SIGNS FROM MY LOVED ONE IN HEAVEN?”  “Why don’t I feel them around me?”
  “Why don’t they come to me in Dreams?!”.  My answer is Simple and it is the same every time.  When we focus on the pain and loss and grief, it is hard to see the beauty that they are surrounding us with from Heaven.   Let me give you an example of this as well.

  Lets take one of the most difficult examples and speak of the passing of a child.  When a parent has to see their child go to Heaven before them, it is one of the greatest pains felt in this world.  No one can tell you not to grieve.  No one can tell you to move on.  No one should ever tell you to get over it.  It is very difficult to even dream of picking your head up off of the pillow to wipe your tears and so you just lie there and cry. You desperately look for signs through your pained eyes, but everyone else around you is telling you of the signs they receive and it breaks your heart.  Someone tells you they had a dream of your child and you haven’t!!! You say to yourself, “I Don’t Get Signs and everyone else does!!” “ I Never See my Child in my Dreams!!!”.  Remember, I said before that Thoughts and words are Things….. What are you surrounding yourself with in simply saying “I Don’t Get Signs” “I Never See My Child in Dreams”.  This is what you have surrounded yourself with in your grief.  It is completely natural to do this because IT HURTS!!!  I want you to go through the motions of 1 day in which you change your grief.  It won’t be easy and I know that you will feel as though you are pretending but that is okay.  I want you to decide that tomorrow is a day that you are going to wake up and Honor your Child in Heaven.  Tomorrow will start with a favorite song that your child loved in life.  It will continue with their favorite breakfast.  Perhaps go to one of your child’s favorite places to be.  Keep one of your child’s items in your pocket for this day in representation of them coming with you.  For 1 day, you will decide that if tears hit your cheeks, they will be tears of love from beautiful memories and those tears will not bring you to bed.  The tears may bring you to your knees and that is okay as well, as they will feel different on this day.  Instead of ever saying again, “I don’t get signs from my child”  “I don’t see them in dreams”.  I want you to focus on what you do want… I want you to simply change those words to “I look forward to the beautiful signs you will surround me with in your perfect timing from Heaven” “I will cherish the day that you feel my timing is right that you join me in a dream”.  You see, you are still focusing on the signs and dreams, but in a way that will benefit you with SUCCESS!!!

  Just remember, Thoughts are Things….. What I put into this world, I am getting back.  If you give your power to Depression, Anger, and Pain, then you will attract more of it into each day that you live.  You can change the world around you, one thought and one action at a time. You Can do it. I hope this helps each and every one who took the time to read it.  May your journey be blessed.