Loss of child

Don't you hear me knocking?I thought you were my friendI really want to talk to you,Please, please  let me in.   I tried calling you 

Note:  This article was written in 1998. How do we prepare our children for pain when it still surprises us?At the cemetery by his little grave I watched the sunflower pinwheel spin in the warm May wind. "I didn't expect life to be this tough," I whispered to my husband, David.