YES MEN DO CRY
One man’s personal journey of grieving the loss of his wife
One mans rebirth
Yes men do grieve, mostly silently
Introduction – After the death of my wife Lois on October 18 2000 I began writing a Journal over a period of 3 years. She was 52 years old. Included in this Journal (Yes Men Do Cry /Available on Amazon) are the 47 poems . The full Journal is also available in print under the tile Yes Men Do Cry – A Journal. Reading this may give you a better understanding of the poems. Enjoy. Also visit my website at yesmendocry.com
The first of 47 poems
TOUCH
One more time- if only
The beginning- a new journey
Hi
It’s only me
No words-just touch
Like a flower - one for every occasion
Sorry
Good vibrations
The ultimate
Love
The climatic crescendo
If only I could touch you one more time I would still want more
Once is never enough
Touch
No words can really explain the meaning
Only when it’s gone will they understand
One more touch-if only
But not in this life time
Touch
I will hold as a memory
Touch
Only in my dreams
Touch
Memories.
That’s all I’ve got now.
Wrote " Yes Men Do Cry" . The journal is a documentation of how I coped with the loss of
Lois (Booby), my wife of twenty-five years, on October 18, 2000. I wrote it over a period of three years from November 2000 to October 2003, at first daily and, as time progressed, weekly, then monthly. It is a personal journey of the grieving process I went through, It is how I felt, how I survived. There is no official ending as one does move on and accepts what is happening on their own terms.
Everything written just flowed, including forty-eight poems.
99% is unedited
I NEVER INTENDED IT TO BE PUBLISHED.
If the Journal helps one person male or female so that they do not feel so alone, then publishing it will have been a success
Yes, there are many books on grieving for women, but few for men. There are many great counseling groups out there, BUT
Because of the macho man syndrome, men appear to prefer grieving in the privacy of their own home.
As you will see, we are far stronger as individuals than we realize. Your mind can play great games. Positivity does conquer NEGATIVITY. The Journal is available at Amazon.
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